Chance, Blaze and Fiona were my water guzzlers. Especially Chance. He could empty a bowl in no time. I was constantly filling the bowl. After the three passed, I struggled to give Zappa fresh water. He never went without it, it just wasn't fresh. I just couldn't seem to get past the fact that the bowl was always full, Sometimes I would stand and stare at the full bowl, paralyzed. I knew I should empty and fill it, but I couldn't. So I would just walk away. It got so bad that eventually Mark had to step in and start giving Zappa fresh water.
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Monday, July 15, 2024
Confessions of a grieving dog mom: Part 2
Chance, Blaze and Fiona were my water guzzlers. Especially Chance. He could empty a bowl in no time. I was constantly filling the bowl. After the three passed, I struggled to give Zappa fresh water. He never went without it, it just wasn't fresh. I just couldn't seem to get past the fact that the bowl was always full, Sometimes I would stand and stare at the full bowl, paralyzed. I knew I should empty and fill it, but I couldn't. So I would just walk away. It got so bad that eventually Mark had to step in and start giving Zappa fresh water.
Friday, June 28, 2024
If you would have told me...
If you told me that I would be looking at the shelter's website with Brut whispering in my ear to think outside the box and that maybe an older dog would be better with the cats, I wouldn't have believed it. As I had already looked at the selection of dogs and closed my laptop once, thinking getting a dog was never going to happen.
And if you'd told me that when Mark said ," Let's go tomorrow and get him," then overslept that morning that it was another sign that it wasn't meant to be. In spite of the message I got from Brut and Silver early that morning when both of their solar lights on their graves were still dimly lit in the morning dawn, I wouldn't have believed it.
If you would have told me that a week ago today I would have a 10 year old Lab/Hound mix dog that I picked off the Humane Society laying on the floor next to me, I would have told you, you're crazy! Or if you'd told me that when we went to the shelter after seeing said picture of dog only to find out they were closed, a friend whom used to work at our vet's office was working there, saw us and came out to see us. When we told her we wanted Chevy, her eyes lit up as she had known Chevy for a while and even though they were closed, we met Chevy, and she made the deal happen.
And if I told you that Chevy was great with the cats and the cats are warming up to him, it is almost surreal to believe. When we took Chevy home, he walked right up to the door, ready to go inside. And if I told you that it feels like he has been here all along, I would tell you that Chevy filled this dog mom's heart in every way possible. ♥
Monday, June 24, 2024
Meet Chevy!
The most awesome thing happened...we got a dog!
Chevy is a rescue from our local Humane Society. He is a 10 years old Yellow Lab, although we think there may be some hound in there. He is in fantastic shape, very strong for his age and quite active.
He is a very happy dog and a definite velcro dog. He took to Mark right away and slept with him on his first night here. Chevy is loving, affectionate and a cuddle bug.
The cats were my biggest worry with getting a dog. And while the cats had the shock of their lives when a dog walked in, but Chevy paid little attention to them.
I don't know any background on him, but he has beautiful manners. Doesn't beg, just sits quietly and waits patiently. He knows all the basic commands, comes when called and is a dream come true.
He has the same color fur as Zappa. Has Fiona's friendliness. He is nurturing like Silver. Loyalty of Brut. Silliness of Chance and the spunk of Blaze. Oh, he loves veggies!
Chevy is the perfect match for us and a blessing in so many ways. When we met him, it just all came together. I'll tell you about that story another time.
Chevy is a total Godsend and we couldn't be happier!
Monday, June 17, 2024
Silver's Yucca plant
Thursday, June 6, 2024
Not Quite Ready
I was online with our local Humane Society. Just looking at dogs and possibilities. When I saw a red Hound mix that was adorable. I have always had a thing for hounds. Anyways, I thought he might be the one. He was suppose to be good with dogs and cats, which was a plus. I printed an application. And thought about this dog all day. I went from the highs of getting a dog to fear of a lifetime commitment. I made a list of pros and cons. There it was in black and white, I wasn't ready and the timing wasn't right. My mood plummeted. My day felt shattered.
I am struggling to accept where I'm at with getting another dog. I am not ready and it isn't the right time. And that just about kills me. I feel like I'm stuck in the middle of a tunnel, looking out both ways, yet I can not move forward or backward.
Hubby, Mark and I have even talked about getting ducks to start, but that conversation faded as quickly as it started.
Neither of us are ready. Losing the 24 Paws made an impact on both of us. And now we are here, with two cats and a very busy schedule. It is a very tight circle, the four of us, that I have been fighting against.
My whole world has been dogs. I keep trying to make it happen. I'm keep pushing. But I keep finding I'm not ready. No matter what I do, it isn't time. It is just that plain and simple, in all forms and ways. Sometimes I fear that I will never be ready and that scares the crap out of me.
While at the same time, I told Mark after Zappa died that if I never had another dog, I would have not been cheated with the 24 Paws. Maybe God will hold me to that, I don't know. The 24 Paws is a powerful love and I'm not ready to break that bond.
Wednesday, May 8, 2024
The white dog-Fiona
There were four white puppies from Brut and Silver's litter. They were a "surprise" to us when they were born. We would have never guessed to have any white puppies, being that Brut was a sable color Husky and Silver was black Lab. There were three boys and one girl. They were kind of ugly when they were born with their pink skin showing and their thin, wet white fur almost translucent. They were quite a shock to us. We discovered later that Brut's grandma was an all white Husky and the color came from her.
I had planned on keeping a black and white one from said litter named, Angel, but when the pups were three days old, I changed my mind. I watched the white female, the runt of the litter, kicking ass to get to mom's teat. She put her whole heart into it and I had to keep her. There was just something about the way she fought that day to keep up with her brothers and sisters, that I couldn't let her go. We named her Fiona.
Fiona was the most affectionate of the 24 Paws. She gave plenty of kisses and took lots of love in return. She was also the jester of the bunch doing anything to make us laugh. She had a full time job with me and my depression. She earned her keep.
Fiona was the sh*t roller of the 24 Paws. Of course, being a white dog, she loved to roll in anything stinky. I remember one time on a walk we were taking, just the two of us, she put her jester and rolling skills together. She must have rolled in this deer poop for about ten or fifteen times. She'd roll then stand up and do it again. I was laughing so hard with each roll that she just kept doing it. It was hilarious and so much fun.Fiona had a wicked side as well. She ignored dogs on walks or at the vet, but had it out for Chance and Blaze. Fiona was one of the reasons we couldn't blend the two packs. She was the instigator the few times the door between the two packs wasn't latched. And while Fiona and Zappa never fought, she would show her teeth to him sometimes when she was possessing something like the couch.
On the flip side, Fiona was my girly girl. She was feminine, but very strong emotionally and mentally. She was everything I could've wanted in a female dog. And she was so beautiful. Fiona got compliments all the time on her beauty.
Three years ago today, I lost that precious love. It is good to write down the memories as they begin to float to the surface. My sweet girl, gone too soon. ♥
Thursday, May 2, 2024
Chance and Blaze's digging holes
The flowers bring up good memories. Chance and Blaze were crazy diggers. Chance would dig deep enough and wide enough to fit his entire body in a hole, with just his head sticking out. lol
Monday, April 22, 2024
My Bedtime Buddies
These are my bedtime buddies. Each stuffie is one of the last toys that the four pups, Blaze, Chance, Fiona and Zappa played with before they died.
So I hold them in just that order across my chest and fall asleep with them in my arms. They bring me comfort.
For a long time I couldn't sleep without them in that position. These stuffies did a great deal to help with my grief. I talked to them like they were the dogs.
While now it's not necessary to sleep with them every night, I still do occasionally, they are always on the bed next to me. They still bring me comfort, just by being there.
Do you have a favorite doggie stuffie?
Saturday, April 6, 2024
Confessions of a grieving dog mom
I haven't been able to eat raw vegetables since Chance, Blaze and Fiona died three years ago. All the dogs liked vegetables but Chance and Blaze were my ultimate veggie dogs, being that they were the kitchen dogs. We especially like sharing them at lunch time and snack time. I lost my desire and taste for veggies after losing the dogs. I couldn't fathom even eating a tomato or a cucumber (my favs) because the grief was unbearable.
I haven't had a vegetable garden since they died either. I use to grow tomatoes, green peppers, cucumbers, (the three staples) along with carrots, broccoli, lima beans, hot peppers, and green beans, Chance and Blaze used to do a dance when I would gather up food from the garden waiting to get their bite of fresh veggies. They were always so happy, it made the garden chores worth it.
For Chance and Blaze I would grow climbing green beans on the fence where they could reach them, so they always had a fresh supply. The beans that were at the top of the fence, I would pick and take turns feeding them to Chance and Blaze. They made everything about eating vegetables so much fun.
And now I have to find that fun for myself. As you might imagine my health has been impacted by not eating enough vegetables and it is time to add them back into my diet. And while I needed a push, it hasn't been as hard as I thought it would. I will always miss that special time with dogs, but now I think they are looking over me helping me get healthier and happier and I wouldn't have it any other way.
Friday, March 15, 2024
Tribute to the Thundering Herd
One of best things about blogging is getting to "know" the bloggers and their dogs. You become attached and invested in both, but we all know it's about the dogs. All these years, one has always stood out.
Hubby, Mark was hounding me to blog about the dogs, so I finally started investigating different dog blogs. I looked at several blogs and couldn't really find one that interested me. That is until I stumbled upon The Thundering Herd, and I was hook.
It was everything I thought a dog blog should be and then some. It gave me the inspiration I was searching for in a dog blog. And best of all they had SIX Huskies, just like us. All the more reason to try my hand at blogging.
We went through all the ups and downs with The Thundering Herd and their crazy antics. Most post were humorous in nature, but there was always that one sad one that we could all relate to....the loss of a dog.
Which brings me to today, while the original Herd members are all gone, they have four dogs that are part of the new Herd. Sadly, they recently lost one of the four, Typhoon, the Little Prince. And I find myself mourning their loss and mine. See, they are more than just dogs on a computer screen, the dog's lives were painted alive right in my home as shown through D.K.Wall's eyes. We could've been neighbors it felt that close.
So give your dog a hug for five seconds longer and those belly rubs he's begging for today.. Share a few extra treats. Take walk you've been saving for a special day. Tell them how much you love them. And if you know The Thundering Herd, share some love with them too..
Thursday, March 14, 2024
Blaze gone 3 years today
Tuesday, March 12, 2024
Testing...testing...1,2,3
Had to make some changes to our email subscriptions. They were technical changes that do not effect any of our subscribers, so no worries. And since I'm not very technical it took me a while to figure it out. But it is all fixed and ready to go. So hopefully every one of our subscribers is receiving this post.
Because of the delay, I missed posting about Zappa's year anniversary. It is so hard to believe that a year ago he was here and that he actually been gone that long. It still hits me, just like that, out of the blue sometimes. In the evenings for some reason, his loss really gets to me, as well as the rest of the 24 Paws. During the day I'm basically OK, but when the sun starts to set, I feel that emptiness and loss every evening. Not really sure why, but I do.Boxer, our cat is doing well for having cancer. He was given 3 months to live last July, but no one told him that. lol It has been eight months since he was diagnosed and he is still here. There have been no changes that I can see and he is acting fine. In fact, he is starting to get really needy, wanting to be close to me all the time. He's starting to drive me crazy. lol Boxer has always been like that, but he's been a little worse than normal. Not sure what that means, but we are taking it day by day with him.Princess Leia, the Siamese, is also doing fine. The food and supplements she takes for her kidney disease are doing a great job at keeping it under control. She is very healthy for a 17 1/2 year old.
Well, that's about the latest. I hope I will be able to post more now that the emails are fixed.
Thank you for staying with us.
Take care,
Patty ♥
Saturday, January 13, 2024
Silver Love
To me and the pups.
It was one of the most beautiful experiences of my life, learning to be loved by a mother dog. I was able to share this life with Silver and witness her motherhood for eight years.
She was the glue that held the family of the 24 Paws together. When she died the whole family fell apart. The pups and us were never quite the same again.
She never asked for anything and would stand back while her pups demanded attention from me.
She had a couple of encounters with her pup, Chance whom she gave kisses to while they were together.
She was strong, independent and stubborn as all hell, but had a gentle and loving spirit.
She nurtured my soul, knowing before I knew what I needed. She was sensitive and intuitive that way.
She was our first puppy and I made every mistake possible with her. Yet, she was so forgiving.
I can't believe it has been seven years today that she disappeared from our lives. The 24 Paws was started because of Silver and ended with hole in my heart forever.